Sex and the Big Man
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"Tell a man 'I hate you' and you'll have the best sex of your life. But tell him 'I love you,' and you'll probably never see him again." - Sex in the City A frank discussion of sex as a big man and some of the challenges we face. We will offer advice, tips and a little light hearted playfulness. We might even use the "L" word . . . Our goal is for you to have hot, safer, twisted, sweaty sex. We will talk about kink, BDSM, leather, latex, STD's, HIV/AIDS, drugs, comfortable postions, negotiating options and much more! We welcome your questions and comments. And if we didn't offend you, well just give us time . . . OINK! |
SSC - Safe, Sane and Consensual
SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) is a frequently heard phrase in BDSM communities, and its roots are deeply entwined with a concern for ethics and, more to the point, fair play.
- Safe means attempts should be made to identify and prevent risks to health.
- Sane means being of sound mind - we don't play when we're angry, intoxicated, or otherwise not fully able to determine boundaries and evaluate risk,
- Consensual means that players in a scene have provided each other with knowledgeable and informed consent, and that every participant has the right to stop the scene at any time through use of a safeword or other pre-designated means.